Found out this morning just how small this world really is! This morning I discovered that my sons’ have a birth cousin who goes to their school. How did I discover that you might ask? Their birth aunt recognized my oldest son Boogy when I was walking him to his class this morning…The first thing she said was I am going to tell his dad I saw him…ARGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Now their whole birth family is going to know that they are there!!!

I don’t want them showing up their to that school trying to see my kids. I still send updates/pics, but I’m still not allowing visits…Poor B was looking all bewildered this morning when we were bombarded by his birth aunt. Ya’ll know the struggles I have a had with this child…He is finally stable and not having everyday abandonment issues. Who knows what seeing them will do….

I’ve already notified the school and teachers etc… .. Lord give me strength!

Anyway, I though I would share these random goodies of the kiddos


  1. Singlemommyhood on November 6, 2009 at 4:58 pm

    I really hope that your son's birth family can respect his — and your — boundaries around school. This is so important. Sending you a big hug. You're such a great mama!!

  2. Halei on November 6, 2009 at 6:41 pm

    They are getting so big!
    Praying for you and the bfamily! Hopefully they can respect what is best for the boys!

  3. Don on November 12, 2009 at 5:54 pm

    You have an admired blog. Keep doing your thang and being a great mom. Also, love the blog title. LOL.

  4. Tami on December 12, 2009 at 3:20 pm

    Yikes. Good luck with that. I probably would have snatched my kids out of that school and moved him to another one. I have to have boundaries I've set up or I keep it moving.

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